Thursday, May 8, 2014
On 4:25 AM by kevin kavs in goals self esteem go No comments
Everybody
wants to be somebody someday. If you have realized your purpose in life then you should take the necessary steps towards your goals. However in life you will always have speed bumps that will reduce your pace of determination. Today i will highlight just five of the major distractions.
1. You constantly seek approval from others
You
might be the type of person who constantly thinks of the outcome before you
carry out an activity. I'm sorry to tell you this but this kind of behavior
will ruin you.You are basically programming yourself to accept commands from
others subconsciously.The worst part is they don't even realize they are giving
you any commands (works kind of like a computer virus).
Always
remember that you came into this world alone and sorry to burst your bubble but
that is how you will also leave.
No
matter how much you are in love or in sync with your partner or friends you
will always make different decisions and choices, that is why arguments erupt
all the time, your individuality wants to speak. Be bold take a step on your
own and see what happens next.
2.
You fear prying eyes
Just
like in the animal kingdom we will always be weary of danger around us, but
some people heighten these limits of danger. You might be too scared of what
your neighbors might think you decided to buy that brand new Porsche that
you always had your eye on.Chances are they already talk negatively about your
current car, love life, children, relationship with them and many more things.
Everyday
we live the thinner the ice below our feet becomes, learn to focus a little
more on yourself and your happiness before you sink into the frozen waters of
the unknown.
3.
You procrastinate too much
This
is the reason why many people go to their graves before being recognized for
their significant contribution to the society. You might have the gift of ideas
and can make an app 100 times better than any in existence but due to over
thinking which is the foundation of procrastination and comparing your idea to
all the greats you will almost always never make a move or at least that which
is noticeable.
Stop
comparing your ideas to the greatest in the market. Be a little crazy, deploy
your idea and let the society do the rest. who knows you might be the next
billionaire.
4.
You only trust existing patterns
Are
you the type of person who discourages people when they say they want to open
an entirely new business that does not exist or releasing a product that has
not undergone extreme market testing? Chances are that you are an intelligent
person. Intelligent people naturally fear making un-calculated moves, they
might see your idea as a gamble and stick to what they are sure works and has
worked for a number of years.
If
you want to achieve the un-achieved, learn to live outside your comfort zone.At
least try one "dumb" idea and see where it leads you. Don't be too
afraid to fail, you might think people will look at you in a worse off angle
when you fail but keep in mind this is not true. People are more likely to appreciate
your effort rather than perfection. That is the same reason people like magic.
We are naturally wired with the desire to see other people try something out of
the ordinary "normal routine".
5.
Your focus is scattered
You
might think that trying our hand in several things will give you a wide variety
of outcome fast. Strain to know your limits know exactly how many projects you
can handle at once. If it is too much pressure for you reduce that number and
try on a lesser scale. We are engineered to deal with different kinds of
weights if you stretch yours too far you will eventually lose.
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